Has your man ever expressed desire for you to talk dirty to him while the two of you are in bed? Did his appeal send you into a split second of panic thinking about how you would ever get the language out of your mouth? Knowing how to talk dirty to a guy is really not hard and shouldn’t send you running in fear and embarassment.

There are just a few tips to be taught and you are on your way to being a dirty talking queen and will have your guy ardent with new-found desire.

The first tip to remember is that guys are very visual. It only takes ashortf visual to pop into a mans head and he’s prepared and ready to go. While talking dirty use words that go along with the visuals your man will have raging in his head. This not only gets him hot with your words, but also the picture it creates in his head.

Bring his attention to your body while saying, “It makes me so hot when you look at my…” Or, lay a hand on him and ask, “Does it feel good right here?” He will probably be so turned on he will hardly be able to get out an answer. Change things up. Have fun. Your guy will love the teasing and suggestive jargon more than you can imagine.

Another tip to remember when learning to talk dirty is to keep things straightforward. Men don’t usually catch on to subtle words and gestures. It’s best if you tell him exactly what you want and how you want it done. Men just don’t seem to be able to figure out what you want by subtle proposition or body language. Not only will this let your guy know what turns you on without any question, but the directness of your language will also be a source of an erotic turn on to him.

And lastly, remember to play into your guy’s ego. We all want to feel appreciated. Men love to feel manly and sexually skilled. Keep your compliments real, but be generous in your praise of any of his sexual undertakings and attributes that you particularly enjoy. Say to him, “You feel so big,” or “I love the way you kiss my…With your…” Your guy will eat up the compliments while at the same time will be loving the new, dirty talking vixen you have become.

Article written by Mariel Wineberg