When you are learning how to talk dirty to a guy, you will most likely ask yourself this question, “What Dirty Text or MSN should I say to a guy?”

A very normal question

You are not the only woman who is faced with this question when taking the first step to talking dirty to a guy. Most women are totally clueless about this subject and just cannot fathom what has to be said.

As most women just do not know what they have to say when it comes to talking dirty with a partner, they end up feeling like they’re being put on the spot, which is no way to feel about sex at all. 

So how do you get ideas on what to say through texting when talking dirty?

The secret lies right in front of you – it is with your man. Pay attention to him when he is talking. Try to remember and recall the dirty words and dirty phrases that he uses with you.

What dirty phrases does your man feel comfy with? Think of the times you have had s^e^x with your man and recall the dirty things he said. This will help you in understanding how to talk dirty with your guy because you will thus know what he desires.

How to talk dirty to a guy over text - make a list of the dirty text or on msn and get comfy with it

Okay, so now you have understood how to get down to talking dirty. Now, you need to get comfy with the process. The first step lies in you writing down a list of the dirty text and over msn that your guy uses and loves hearing.

Once you have made this list, and then add to the list words that you know and feel that you are going to be comfortable with using. Then, make a comparison of both the lists and find dirty words and text that are included in both and circle them.

This will really help you when you want to know what dirty things or text to say to your guy or your boyfriend.